By Andrea Merrell
Some friendships
don’t last for long,
but there is one
loving friend who is joined to your heart
closer than any
other!
Proverbs 18:24
TPT
Having friends is important, but we need to choose those relationships carefully. If not, we might inadvertently invest too much time and energy into
relationships that are not good for our wellbeing.
According to Renew
magazine, relationships can easily fall into one of two categories: bucket
fillers or bucket spillers.
Bucket
fillers are connections we have with friends and family that make us feel
loved, encouraged, appreciated, and fulfilled. Bucket spillers are connections
that can make us feel unloved, depleted, anxious, and undervalued.
As we get older, we need to give
ourselves permission to weed out relationships that don’t enrich our lives. And
there’s nothing selfish about doing so. It’s a self-protective measure to keep
us from becoming emotionally and mentally drained.
But no matter how good our
earthly relationships are, the best way to keep our buckets filled is to
spend time with the One who knows us best and loves us most. He will never
judge us, betray us, or leave us. He’s the loving friend who is joined to your
heart, closer than any other.
(Photo courtesy of FreeDigitalPhotos.net and Aleks Melnik.)
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