By Andrea Merrell
“Your son is not
doing well in my classroom,” the teacher said to Stevie’s parents. “It seems he
doesn’t do well taking correction.”
“Oh, we try not to
correct our son,” Stevie’s dad responded, emphasizing his distaste for
the word correct. “We don’t make rules. We believe in allowing him to
think for himself and make his own decisions. We don’t ever want to stifle his
freedom and creativity.”
How sad for little
Stevie, his parents, friends, and society in general. This boy—like so many
others—is growing up with no structure. No discipline. No guidelines or
boundaries. Not only will this affect him in the workplace and in
relationships, it can cause him to ignore God’s leading and instruction as
well.
The Book of
Proverbs talks a lot about this subject:
- A wise man will
hear and increase learning, and a man of understanding will attain wise
counsel. (Proverbs 1:5 NKJV)
- The fear of
the Lord is the
beginning of knowledge, but fools
despise wisdom and instruction. (Proverbs 1:7 NKJV)
- Don’t be
impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil.
(Proverbs 3:7 NLT)
- Take hold of my
instructions; don’t let them go. Guard them, for they are the key to life. (Proverbs
4:13 NLT)
- Listen to my
instruction and be wise. Don’t ignore it. (Proverbs 8:33 NLT)
- If you reject
discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in
understanding. (Proverbs 15:32 NLT)
- To discipline a
child produces wisdom, but a mother is disgraced by an undisciplined child.
(Proverbs 29:15 NLT)
- Discipline your
children, and they will give you peace of mind
and will make your heart glad.
(Proverbs 29:17 NLT)
Just as wise
parents are to correct their children, our loving heavenly father corrects
those who belong to Him.
For the Lord disciplines those He loves,
and He punishes each one He accepts as His child.
As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God
is treating you as His own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never
disciplined by its father? If God doesn’t discipline you as He does all of His children, it
means that you are illegitimate and are not really His children at all. Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined
us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our
spirits, and live forever?
For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the
best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we
might share in His holiness. No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it’s painful! But
afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are
trained in this way. (Hebrews 12:6-11 MSG)
This life journey
we’re on is full of learning and correction, so ask yourself: Am I
teachable?
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