Who Has the Final Say?

 

By Andrea Merrell

God’s way is perfect. All the Lord’s promises prove true.

He is a shield for all who look to him for protection.

Psalm 18:30 NLT

 

“My marriage is in trouble,” the woman told her friend. “We’ve reached a stalemate. We tried to agree to disagree, but we can’t even agree on that.”

This couple had reached a point of no return. Neither willing to compromise. No going forward or finding a resolution. They were stuck. And both wanted to have the final say. 

Pride can get us in a lot of trouble, especially when we’re unwilling to admit we’re wrong or even consider another person’s feelings or opinion. The Bible says, “Pride leads to conflict” (Proverbs 13:10 NLT). When we always think we’re right and have the attitude that it’s “my way or the highway,” we’ve already lost the battle.

But we really get in trouble when we carry this attitude into our relationship with the Lord. With Him there is no stalemate. No negotiation. He doesn’t agree to disagree.

Psalm 119 tells us, “Forever, O Lord, Your word is settled in heaven” (vs. 89 NKJV). That means it's etched in stone. Unchangeable.

God will patiently listen to our complaints, but in every situation, He has the final say. Case closed.

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