By Andrea Merrell
So let us stop
going over the basic teachings
about Christ again and again.
Let us go on
instead and become
mature in our understanding.
Hebrews 6:1 NLT
We all expect certain behavior from children. Even
teens. It comes, as they say, with the package. As children grow, they change. But
what about adults?
There’s a thin, wavy line between natural and spiritual
maturity. A lot of people get tripped-up
with the word, because the Bible relates mature
to perfect. But being perfect doesn’t
necessarily mean without flaw or error. It also conveys being complete, sound,
whole, pure, correct … in other words mature, especially in our understanding.
But how do we know when it happens. How do we
measure?
Immature folks are full of excuses. They mostly
operate in confusion and are generally disorganized. They have the best of
intentions but tend to break promises, lose friends, and have a difficult time
following through—especially in business and other important matters. (Hmmm … sounds a lot like childhood.)
On the flip side, pastor and author Bob Gass says
it best:
Maturity is the ability
to control your anger and settle your differences without violence or
resentment. Maturity is patience; it is the willingness to pass up short-term
pleasure for long-term gain. It’s the ability to “sweat it out” in spite of
heavy opposition or discouraging setbacks. It’s the capacity to face
unpleasantness and frustration without complaining or collapsing. Maturity is
humility. It’s being big enough to say “I was wrong,” and when you are right,
never needing to say “I told you so.” Maturity is the ability to make a
decision and follow through with it instead of exploring endless possibilities
and doing nothing about any of them. Maturity means dependability, keeping your
word, and coming through in a crisis. Maturity is the art of being at peace
with what you can’t change, having the courage to change what you can, and the
wisdom to know the difference.
So, how did you measure-up according to those
parameters? I don’t know about you, but I think I have a bit more maturing to
do.
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