Is Your Joy Tied to Your Circumstances?

 

By Andrea Merrell

These things I have spoken to you, that My joy 

may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.

John 15:11 NKJV

 

“I can’t ever do anything to please you!” the man shouted at his wife. “What will it take to make you happy?”

The woman remained silent, but thoughts shot through her mind like bottle rockets on the Fourth of July. Finally, she said, “When you’re nicer to me. When you make more money and get us out of debt. When you fix all the broken things on my list. When you let me get a better car. When …”

This woman’s happiness and sense of well-being was clearly tied to her circumstances and what her husband could do for her. She felt that she could never be happy until things changed. What she needed was joy.

Happiness depends on what goes on around us. It’s both fickle and fleeting. But joy—true, never-ending joy—only comes from the Lord. It’s a gift that helps us smile and keeps us standing strong in the face of adversity.

Sarah Young writes that when we “continually daydream about the day things get better, our moments are trickling into the ground like precious balm spilling wastefully from overturned bottles.”

Don’t dream of better days, waiting to find your happiness. Even when those better days come, the happiness won’t last when circumstances change.

 Joy is a gift. Keep yours full and overflowing.

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