By Andrea Merrell
I have come that they may have life
and that they might have it more abundantly.
John 10:10 NKJV
After giving his audience
a few moments to ponder his questions and jot down some notes, he went on to
explain the difference between
life-draining and life-giving relationships.
His wise words
made me think back to friendships I had experienced over the years. Some were
difficult, even toxic—as I came to realize after the fact. I always walked away
feeling exhausted and discouraged yet not knowing what to do. A couple of those
relationships practically drained the life out of me.
Then I thought
about the true friends who had poured life into me. People who truly cared.
People who loved me and nourished my soul.
Jesus said, “I
have come that they (you) may have life and that they (you) might have it more
abundantly.” How do we experience that abundant life He speaks of? By being
securely connected to Him, the Vine (John 15). That is our ultimate connection.
Our relationship with Him determines the quality of our relationship with
others.
One writer says
that’s how our souls are nourished: through the love of God and other people.
People He places in our path. I call those God-connections.
God created us for
fellowship. For communion with Him and others. That’s what causes us to flourish.
So my question for you is, “Are you firmly plugged in to the very source of
life ... the source of everything that is good and true and lasting?” If not, today’s the day. It will be the best decision you ever make.
Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash
Thank you. I needed to examine these thoughts today.
ReplyDeleteBlessings on your day, Karen! :)
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