Double Jeopardy

 

By Andrea Merrell

Resentment kills a fool, and envy slays the simple.

Job 5:2 NIV

I listened to the woman’s story. Through tears, she told me about the abuse she had suffered for years. “My life is ruined,” she said. “Things could not possibly get any worse.”

But they did.

Unable—and unwilling—to forgive her abuser and give the situation to the Lord, the guilt, shame, and condemnation she carried became so heavy she felt crushed beneath the weight.

The anguish deep within soon turned to anger. She developed a victim mentality and found herself dealing with a root of bitterness that ruled her every waking thought and invaded her dreams. It colored her words and controlled her actions. It affected her relationship with others, her self-worth, and her attitude toward God. She found herself living in double jeopardy—persecuted and prosecuted twice for the same offense.

The suffering we go through in this life will eventually make us wiser and stronger if we deal with it God’s way. But allowing it to fester can eventually become worse than anything we’ve actually gone through.

The Bible says, resentment kills a fool and bitterness is like a poison. They can harm you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually—even physically. No matter what you’ve gone through, don’t be foolish. Don’t allow it to ruin your life. Give it to God. Forgive and move on. That’s how you experience His peace and His unspeakable joy.

Don’t wait. Do it today.

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