You Can’t Hide from God

 

By Andrea Merrell

Lord, you know everything there is to know about me.

Psalm 139:1 TPT

 

“No one can know what I’ve done,” the young girl said through bitter tears. “I’ll never tell another living soul, and neither can you. It would ruin me.”

Her secret was safe with me, but what she failed to realize or accept was that God already knew.

When we try to hide those so-called secret sins—especially from God—they tend to take on a life of their own. They become our master and push us further into the darkness. No one understood this better than the psalmist David. He wrote:

Lord, you know everything there is to know about me. You perceive every movement of my heart and soul, and you understand my every thought before it even enters my mind. You are so intimately aware of me, Lord. You read my heart like an open book, and you know all the words I’m about to speak before I even start a sentence. You know every step I will take before my journey even begins. (Psalm 139:1-4 TPT)

When we understand how intimately acquainted God is with us, it changes everything. He know us inside and out, even better than we know ourselves. And He waits with open arms for us to come to Him and lay our burdens at His feet.

If you’re struggling in this area, pray along with David: God, I invite your searching gaze into my heart. Examine me through and through. Find out everything that may be hidden within me. Put me to the test and sift through all my anxious cares. See if there is any path of pain I’m walking on, and lead me back to your glorious, everlasting way—the path that brings me back to you (Psalm 139:23-24 TPT).

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Beware of Sacred Cows

 

By Andrea Merrell

Beware of … the deceptive teaching 

of the Pharisees and Sadducees.

Matthew 16: 11b-12b

“Wow, another sacred cow bites the dust,” my husband said as we left church one Sunday.

The sermon had centered around old, man-made traditions we had both been exposed to growing up. All the dos and don’ts (mostly don’ts) that had become etched in stone in certain religious settings.

The problem? None of them lined up with Scripture.

I thought back to my first memories of church as a child and all that I was taught. The “rules” so to speak. Unfortunately, over the years every church I attended seemed to have its own set of rules, causing even more confusion.

I always wondered who made those rules. And why did they differ so drastically? Just like the Pharisees and their man-made traditions, all those dos and don’ts revolved around a person’s actions. Their performance. How they dressed. How often they attended church. No tattoos. No piercings. No holey jeans. No smoking. No drinking. No R-rated movies. I once heard someone say if you go to a bar or a pool hall, you’re surely going to hell. I even heard a preacher ranting online recently about conducting church services “in the dark,” as he put it, and having a rock band on the platform. Drums, it seemed to him, were of the Devil.

Many years ago, I heard the story of a church that split over men wearing ties and another over women wearing makeup and jewelry. Jesus warned the religious leaders of His day about coming up with their own rules.

In Jesus Calling, Sarah Young writes:

Do not be like the Pharisees who multiplied regulations, creating their own form of godliness. They got so wrapped up in their own rules that they lost sight of Me. Even today, man-made rules about how to live the Christian life enslave many people. Their focus is on their performance rather than on Me. ~Jesus

Thankfully, God is the only true Judge, and He looks at the heart—not on what we do or don’t do. When we try to live by man’s opinions and standards rather than God’s Word we end up in bondage, always dealing with guilt and condemnation while trying to measure up.

God never intended for us to live that way. Instead of playing by the rules, let's allow the Holy Spirit to be our guide. He will always lead us in the right direction.

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Where Do You Belong?

 

By Andrea Merrell

You’re no longer wandering exiles.

This kingdom of faith is now your home country.

You’re no longer strangers or outsiders.

Ephesians 2:19 MSG

I watched her go from one scenario to another. From church to the bar scene. From Bible studies to drinking and wild parties. She finally ended up as a druggie because she felt “accepted.”

People can spend a lifetime trying to find themselves. To fit in. To find where they belong. But the Bible says God has planted eternity in the human heart (Ecclesiastes 3:11). He created each of us with a God-shaped void that nothing or no one else can fill except Him.

In Ephesians, Paul writes:

That’s plain enough, isn’t it? You’re no longer wandering exiles. This kingdom of faith is now your home country. You’re no longer strangers or outsiders. You belong here, with as much right to the name Christian as anyone. God is building a home. He’s using us all—irrespective of how we got here—in what He is building. He used the apostles and prophets for the foundation. Now He is using you, fitting you in brick by brick, stone by stone, with Christ Jesus as the cornerstone that holds all the parts together. We see it taking shape day after day—a holy temple built by God, all of us built into it, a temple in which God is quite at home (vs. 19-22 MSG).

Everyone needs to feel loved and accepted. To belong. To fit in. Being God’s child is the perfect fit. We carry the hope of eternity in our heart. We are in this world but not of it. We no longer have to search for our place. We are part of God’s family.

That’s where we belong.

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Home Sweet Home

 

 By Andrea Merrell

 

O Lord, you have always been our home.

Psalms 90:1 TEV

 

I smiled as I opened a gift from a friend. The beautiful gold lettering on a long piece of parchment paper unfolded a lifetime of memories, and I realized the truth in those few simple words: Home—the place your story begins.

 

Some say we are what we eat. Others say we are what we read. Still others insist we become like the people we associate with. I believe we are the sum total of our life experiences, yet it all begins at home from our earliest recollections.

 

As a writer, I draw from everything that has touched my life. Even when creating fictional stories and larger-than-life characters, I find many of my own attitudes, experiences, and hang-ups sneaking their way into the story.

 

Everyone who touches us leaves an impression—some to a greater degree than others. We are influenced by success, relationships, and blessings, as well as pain, heartache, and failures. Seeds are planted throughout our days—both good and bad—and they spring up when we least expect them.

 

Even though home has great bearing on who we become, it has not always been my safety net. There were times in my life I wanted to be anywhere else but home. The good news is God takes all the broken pieces, smooths out the rough edges, and strategically puts the puzzle together, forming the bigger picture. When we belong to Him, He takes every trial and every triumph, refines them, and wraps them in His grace. God promises to work every situation for our good, His glory, and the benefit of those around us. He also promises to prepare a place for us where we will spend eternity. That’s when the journey really begins.

 

My story began in my childhood home, dysfunctional at best. It continues today as a wife, mother, grandmother, author, editor, and devoted child of God. He is my dwelling place. My Forever home.

 

In the Wizard of Oz, young Dorothy had a grand adventure and met lots of quirky characters on her way. I’ve had some pretty grand adventures myself, but one day when I reach my heavenly destination I will say just like Dorothy, There’s no place like home.

 

How about you? Will you let Him re-write your story and become your forever home?

 

 

 

The Self-Pity Trap

 

By Andrea Merrell

He lifted me out of the pit of despair.

Psalm 40:2 NLT

When I first met the young woman, I soon found her to be full of self-pity—which Sarah Young calls, “a slimy, bottomless pit” that quickly leads to depression.

Coming from a dysfunctional home filled with anger, addiction, and abuse, she could not get past the events that had stolen her sense of well-being. Even after escaping what she called “her prison,” she walked around in darkness and despair. She felt hopeless and confided that she just wanted to escape. To end her life.

Her progress came about slowly, but surrounded by believers who cared about her, she began to climb out of that pit. When she took her eyes off her past and put them on the Lord, He opened up her future and restored her hope.

Her transformation was a beautiful thing to behold. A few months later, she could proudly say, along with David:

I waited patiently for the Lord to help me,

and He turned to me and heard my cry.

He lifted me out of the pit of despair,

 out of the mud and the mire.

He set my feet on solid ground

 and steadied me as I walked along.

He has given me a new song to sing,

 a hymn of praise to our God.

Many will see what He has done and be amazed.

They will put their trust in the Lord.

(Psalm 40:1-3 NLT)

If you’re battling with depression, stop looking behind and within. Look up. Set your focus—your mind, your heart, and your eyes—on the Lord. He is waiting to take you by the hand and pull you out of the darkness into His glorious light.

 

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